sometimes we use the same words, speak the same language and yet we couldn't understand less.
most of the people are not interested in knowing other people; maybe we are interested in meeting them but most of the time not in knowing. and if we are "ongoing projects" how can we want to know other people. -well, we can. we can at least try. but it's much easier to assume we know them, to judge, to use codes (that so many times don't match the reality but as long as it doens't hurt us, it's ok). it's the mother of your friend, it's your friend, it's the person that works at the, it's the good and the bad person (i'm convinced we are all simultaneously good and bad people) ...(doesn't matter. we will rotulate them because it's too hard work to get to know them and then who cares, will it makes happier, will it gives a bigger house, a better good looking and richer husband, will it "makes us feel better"? -provably not, provaly yes; we never know until we do...and that's a high risk job, bad paid and time consuming). so we keep treating people as if we know them and most of the times it's just fine. you don't really care about there grand-children, their nephews, their jobs...and you can see they don't care about you at all. well, maybe if they can use you as a topic to discuss with "other friends".
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-although i said that all people are good and bad there are two main different types of people. that is based on "your own perspective". the people that make you feel better and special and that make you want to grow better and the others...despisable people, that make us (do they?, or is it we that feel that way??) worthless, just one more, a thing without much interest. those are not worthing space here...
CODE INCONNU
Realização: Michael Haneke
Intérpretes: Juliette Binoche, Thierry Neuvic, Sepp Bierbichler, Ona Lu Yenke
França, 2000
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